7 lessons left to learn. Almost lost a finger as a kid slamming a skylark door, I recently did the same thing in my wife's civic. I just pulled it out without a mark on it. The lesson is buick makes sturdier doors than honda.
Friends and family is western union business. Paypal is for transactions with people you will never meet, Got to protect yourself and know a red flag when you see it. If somebody asks to do F & F. That is a red flag. In my twisted opinion
Paypal is a service. If the buyer chose to save$ and forgo the insurance F-em. bypassing paypal fees is a red flag you are dealing with a knucklehead. I pay the fee's when I deal with my real friends can't let guard down. People suck.