My problem is more with the seasoned members and old timers who just can't help themselves and have to express their opinions regarding value.
Guilty of trying to help a member. Sorry. Also guilty of trusting people until I'm given a reason not to. Sorry. The world would be a better place if we all did more of that.
I've been a supporting member since day one. I was unaware of the rules when I first joined because they are in a sticky in one buried location, and yes, Ogy, I read what I could find. They also mostly address the "don't ask" side of the question. I never considered it a crime to answer. What bugs me is when the newbie gets a lot of smart ass responses and makes them feel 2 inches tall. I think we're all better than that here and we should treat new members with respect, even if they unknowingly made a mistake.
The drama associated with this type of question has never been about the valuations, but the fact that some poor slob asked the forbidden question. Nobody forced anyone to respond. How about from now on, we give the exact response Hent spells out or nothing at all? Once the first person responds with "ITS WORTH WHAT SOMEONE WILL PAY FOR IT", drop it. No more responses are necessary.
Personally I think it would be a little kinder and more helpful to say "Sorry, we can't discuss valuations here", but that's not my call. How about we have the rules spelled out in a place that is accessible directly on the forum home page, not in a sticky in a sub-thread that you have to go into, then scroll half way down the page to find.
I honestly was just trying to help the guy. We're here to help each other, aren't we? I'm sorry if I've done wrong. My bad for typing in actual $ numbers.
What I find really kind of ironic is that I've gotten PM valuation questions from some of the members responding to this very thread. I was happy to help, they were happy to get my opinion, and everything was good. I consider everyone here to be my friend, except for the member that F'd me on a part deal a few weeks ago. :laugh:.
Hopefully Hent can put a link to the site rules right at the top on the forum home page. It would be helpful to all. Maybe he can also make it more clear that we have both a "don't ask" AND "don't tell" policy. Maybe he can include a few code of conduct bullet points as well. Be respectful of each other, be respectful of the site rules, be helpful when you can, etc..
One thing is certain, as Ogy correctly pointed out, people will continue to ask for valuations and the only thing we can control is how we respond. I'll stick to the canned response from now on, but I can't say I won't try to be helpful in other ways.