Since my divorce is final I figured what hell I'll get back into the dating game, knowing this time clearly what I want. I've taken out 3 women in the past 6 weeks. Some more than once.
1st one Age 26 No kids: Took her out once, next day she calls, I'm out with my Dad doing random stuff and I tell her this and she says fine if you don't want to see me whatever. Click. Clingy...don't want clingy...This one had a masters in teaching, just graduated, and finished her first school year as a teacher. I was impressed until it took one date for the clingy to show.
2nd one Age 28 2 Kids(awesome kids): Went out with her 6 times in 2 weeks, really liked her and the kids from the start. 4th date she asked me for money for her daughters dance class, I told her no. Last time I was with her we were having a small party and her kids were in the house sleeping. We were all drinking a little, I was nursing a beer because I didn't want to drink too much and drive. Well we are setting there, mind you we were all 28 to 35 her kids were sleeping in the house and they start passing around a joint. Shes high as a freaking kite and I'm like wtf your kids are in the freaking house what if they need something? I left. Gold digger and a pot head. She also didn't work, relied on her parents to provide for her. Pass
3rd one Age 30 1 kid: This girl was flat out crazy! We went out twice Friday and Saturday and she was talking about me moving in as we are sitting on her couch! I'm like no way! I'm not looking to move in with anyone for a good while. She became enraged when I told her I wasn't moving in and I got the hell out of there.
4th age 24 1 kid: Yet to be seen. This one works at a hosptial, has her own place, a new car, and seems really self sufficent. The baby daddy is not in the picture at all he hasn't seen his kid in 2 years on christmas eve when she moved out almost 2 years ago and he makes no attempts to see her. The little girl is 2 and exteremly cute. So I will have to see what she is like. Only problem so far is she is a little heavier than I prefer(I don't want model thin, but inbetween) But she seems fun, going on our first date Saturday night. Interested in seeing how this one goes.
I've come to accept the fact that at my age now finding a girl without kids is impossible. But I have none of my own and don't have a problem with a woman having kids. So its not that big of a deal, I do like kids.
I DO NOT want crazy, clingy, gold digger or drug user. My exwife was crazy, clingy and a gold digger! I'm old enough and wise enough now to have learned about these things. I wish I could go back and kick my 20 year old self square in the nuts for ignoring the signs in my past relationship because I was "in love". Forget love. Love is important but so are many other things in a relationship.
1st one Age 26 No kids: Took her out once, next day she calls, I'm out with my Dad doing random stuff and I tell her this and she says fine if you don't want to see me whatever. Click. Clingy...don't want clingy...This one had a masters in teaching, just graduated, and finished her first school year as a teacher. I was impressed until it took one date for the clingy to show.
2nd one Age 28 2 Kids(awesome kids): Went out with her 6 times in 2 weeks, really liked her and the kids from the start. 4th date she asked me for money for her daughters dance class, I told her no. Last time I was with her we were having a small party and her kids were in the house sleeping. We were all drinking a little, I was nursing a beer because I didn't want to drink too much and drive. Well we are setting there, mind you we were all 28 to 35 her kids were sleeping in the house and they start passing around a joint. Shes high as a freaking kite and I'm like wtf your kids are in the freaking house what if they need something? I left. Gold digger and a pot head. She also didn't work, relied on her parents to provide for her. Pass
3rd one Age 30 1 kid: This girl was flat out crazy! We went out twice Friday and Saturday and she was talking about me moving in as we are sitting on her couch! I'm like no way! I'm not looking to move in with anyone for a good while. She became enraged when I told her I wasn't moving in and I got the hell out of there.
4th age 24 1 kid: Yet to be seen. This one works at a hosptial, has her own place, a new car, and seems really self sufficent. The baby daddy is not in the picture at all he hasn't seen his kid in 2 years on christmas eve when she moved out almost 2 years ago and he makes no attempts to see her. The little girl is 2 and exteremly cute. So I will have to see what she is like. Only problem so far is she is a little heavier than I prefer(I don't want model thin, but inbetween) But she seems fun, going on our first date Saturday night. Interested in seeing how this one goes.
I've come to accept the fact that at my age now finding a girl without kids is impossible. But I have none of my own and don't have a problem with a woman having kids. So its not that big of a deal, I do like kids.
I DO NOT want crazy, clingy, gold digger or drug user. My exwife was crazy, clingy and a gold digger! I'm old enough and wise enough now to have learned about these things. I wish I could go back and kick my 20 year old self square in the nuts for ignoring the signs in my past relationship because I was "in love". Forget love. Love is important but so are many other things in a relationship.
