Change the fork oil if there is any in there, they sell different weight oils just for forks and a slighty heavier oil than stock may slow down/deaden the shock action a little but enough to help you.
Change the fork springs but that could be a major pain since you'd have to know the spring rate and then figure out how much more you want/need and then finding one that will fits back in the forks right.:doah:
Consider converting the rear to a swing axle, lot of work but has been done and that would help.
Or go cheap and just make a spring suspended seat, still gonna beat the bike but you'll be more comfy.
Basically you have to mod the bike to take the abuse or modify your riding style to suit the bikes capabilities.